I've been enjoying the new daytime talk show The Chew (on my DVR) and their focus of getting the family around the dinner table. They've had some delicious meals showcased that I wish I could eat.
One of the tips I've gleaned from them regarding the family dinner table is to hold sacred the fifteen minutes or so when the meal is done. Clearing the table can wait a few moments as all sit together and gab--or just bask in the awesomeness of the meal. ;) We've all done it with friends before--lets do it with our family as well. Even if our kiddos are younger.
Another tip I remember being from Carla is to play High-Low. Everybody in the family takes turns telling about a high point in their day, and a low point in their day. It provides an opportunity for the family to congratulate each others successes and to bolster or help problem-solve the not-quite-successes. It also helps all to recognize opportunities to be grateful.
Some other ideas gathered over the years:
- Dress the Table. Use what you have at home or pick up some fabric remnants to use as table cloth, runner, or placemats
- Buy a set of fabric napkins and use at least once a week (or with every dinner if you do daily laundry)
- Create rituals for your mealtimes
- Simplify your evenings and/or mealtimes
- Use candles at dinnertime
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